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Tuesday, March 26, 2013

Of Women and Tears

Assalammulaikum......

Guten Abend Fruend und Fruendin :) Today's topic diilhamkan oleh my lovely dearly sayang-ly room mate , Fatimah Zahra. So that day i saw a guy tweeted , ' women are complex, lebih complex daripada shopping complex ' . Hmmmm i don't think so , for me we're not even close to complex , we're just full with emotions . So one of the emotions that we have is sad . Mesti korang tak faham kan kenapa perempuan suka menangis . Even se-tough mana pun perempuan tu , when she has reached her breaking point , she will cry. So do i , we're creatures "made of" tears .

 Dear people who are wondering the reasons why , kitorang menangis bila terlampau marah atau geram dengan seseorang/situasi tersebut . For instance , a friend of mine wanted to take the calculus test earlier than the exact date, which is a day before the test date because she had to go home early. So the lecturer argued with her and didn't let her take the test earlier for no concrete reason . My friend talked and tried to convince him a few more times , but all her efforts were in vain. So tercetuslah rasa geram dan marah tu , and she cried . Aku pernah menangis jugak sebab kena paksa amik subjects yang aku taknak . Maybe guys rasa benda ni macam entah hape hape , childish or takde motif . Guys (some)  might release their anger toward objects/person , maki hamun ke, belasah , sepak , tumbuk dinding etc ,right ? For us , menangis itu ialah solusi yang terbaik .

Second reason , sebab memang kitorang betul betul sedih . Contohnya,when we're watching movies ada certain parts yang sedih and we cry , because like i said before, we're full with emotions. bagi guys , macam biasa je part tu takde motif nak menangis . But for us , kitorang relate scene yang dalam movie tu dengan realiti kehidupan seharian. lagi lagi love movies , we put ourselves in the situations , we can feel the sadness of being apart, when jack sacrificed himself for rose. sebab tu feelings lebih. for guys , movie is just a movie .

One more reason, i'm not sure maybe not all but some of the girls lah macam ni . we cried because people were mad at us. Especially yang marah tu ialah golongan the loved ones . Memang nangis bersungguh sungguh lah nampak gayanya . Most of the time bila my mom marah , i cried hahahahaha . okay malu nak admit sebenarnya tapi inilah realiti . satu lagi masa kitorang rasa dah penat, tak tahan and give up letih with everything then we nangis lahh , apa lagi .

So that's it , do comfort her if you see she's crying. But for me, just let me be. jangan pujuk , nanti lagi deraih ayaq terjun mengaliaq lols. have a good night lovelies :)

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